
Is it money? Is
it connections? Is it knowledge? Wisdom? Intelligence?
All
the above are potential energies.
A
lot of people have them .Not everyone has a lot, but everyone has something.
You, with your life experience, will definitely have some money saved up, some
knowledge and experience gained through the years and some intelligence. But
What's
the most powerful thing of this all?
None of these can be of any use if we do not use it.
A high performance sports car is nothing without a driver to drive it forward.
In
my life experience, I have learned a thing or two.
And
I learned that, true power is always one thing:
· The power of getting
started.
· Initiative.
Starting
something is the most powerful thing.Many people are more skilled than
me.
Many people are having more resources than many successful people.But the one
thing that differentiates successful people from the others is that...
Successful people keep starting. They don't keep thinking or planning for
a long time.They just start.I had these thoughts while I was in the shower today.
And I thought I will write a blog post about it. And instantly, a part of
me resisted doing it.That's the laziness inside us.We procrastinate things.We tell a lie to
ourselves and don't get started.One big devil's advocate in this process is
perfectionism.We tell ourselves, if I do it, I will do it perfectly.
And then we never get started.There is something called the law of diminishing
intent.If you got an idea or an inspiration to start something, your enthusiasm about
it will be 10/10 when the idea came to you.Within a few hours it will become
like 9/10.
By the end of the day it will become 8/10.After one week, your enthusiasm about
that idea would be like 2/10.Then by that time, you would have sold yourself
that it is not a great idea after all.
What
are you doing?
You
are building a graveyard of dead ideas within yourself. Ideas which could have
changed the world, but never saw the light of the day.Successful people have
learned one thing from their life experience.
You
got an idea?
Get started with it ASAP.Successful people defeat a lot of people in their
life. They defeat the nay sayers.They defeat their competitors. They defeat
evil with good intentions.But those things are nothing. Successful people can crush other people like
bugs under their feet. Because the biggest monster they fight every day, is
themselves. The part of them that prevents them from getting started. I came
out of the shower and started writing this blog post.
I didn't even wait till my hair dried.Because when inspiration for something
hits, it is the most effective in the next one hour.Some projects take longer time, like a business plan and execution is not as
simple as this article I am writing.But getting started with something gives it
life. And it takes a life of its own.You will be powering it with your resources, but it gathers momentum.
Got
a business idea?
Message
a like-minded friend immediately. You will give it some life, and then it
will pickup steam slowly.Thinking of joining a gym and taking better care of
your health?Start researching at gyms around your area and inquire about the plans they
have.There are many ways to defeat this monster.But the best way is to get started
immediately.
Apart from your success that follows after getting started, there is another
big reason why you should get started.Because when you get an idea to do
something, you are making a commitment with yourself.
When
you don't do it, you are breaking that commitment.
· That makes you feel
bad about yourself.
· Your relationship
with yourself erodes.
· How would you feel if
your friend said he will meet you at a coffee shop at 5'o clock and then comes
at 6o'clock?
· How would you feel if
he doesn't even turn up and forgets about it?
· May be once or twice
you will forgive him.
· But what if he does
that every time?
· You won't be friends
with him anymore.
· The relationship will
break. How many commitments
that you have done to yourself that you have not done?
Successful
people feel great all the time because they plan something and then they do it.Just
do it.
If
you do something, it will have some results.
Yes,
the results are a reward.
But
the best feeling and the best reward successful people get is that they feel
great about themselves.
Successful
people are not let down when someone ditches them.
They
are not let down when their wealth is taken away.
They
literally lose nothing. Because their biggest asset is themselves.
If
you make a commitment to go to them gym everyday from next week and if you
actually do it without missing a single day for 3 months, how would that make
you feel.
· You will fall in love
with YOU.
· You will be so happy
all the time, because your best friend, YOURSELF, is dependable.
· This person will keep
the commitment.
· You can count on YOU!
· Don't count on anyone
else, apart from you.
Because
others will always let you down.
And
you cannot do anything about it, because you cannot control other's actions.
But
did you forget about the best person in your life that you can count on?
That's
yourself.
So
starting today, make a commitment to improve the relationship you have with
yourself.
Start things.
· Keep the commitments
to yourself.
· Forget new year
resolutions.
· Enough of failing
yourself.
· This moment is your
new life.
· Make a life
resolution, to keep the commitments that you make to yourself.
· Make a resolution
that you will act on every idea that you get.
· You will star
t seeing results in your life.
· Your reality will
change for the better.
· You will have so much
wealth around you.
· You will have good
health.
But
above all, your relationship with yourself will be so awesome that you are
happy all the time.
· Once you fix
yourself, you will not need friends and family.
· Because there is
nothing that you want from them.
· That doesn't mean
that you have to be alone.
· You can enjoy all the
time that you want with them.
· But when they are not
around, you won't need them.
· Because being alone
doesn't scare you anymore.
· Solitude is the art
of spending time with yourself.
· You will not be
lonely.
· You will not be
afraid to be with YOURSELF.
Because
this is a great person you have with you. YOURSELF.
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